1. Face the reality of the facts instead of denying it.
2. Do what you can do, do something instead of being fatalistic.
3. Avoid the blame syndrome. Instead, look at the problem and search for answer.
4. If you need help, ask for help to god.
5. Cut your losses. Learn to let go of the past.
6. Decide to get up and move on again.
7. Have faith. Draw on the inner resources of your faith.
8. Realise your limitations.
9. Fight self-pity.
10. Count your blessing.